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Freedom and fulfilment are the rewards of the brave. Be willing to search for answers deep within. Know that YOUR thoughts and actions are all that you can control... and accept full responsibility for your own life. It sounds simple but it’s not. Most of us spend decades on the long road back home. #lisabensonauthor #stoptrying #startbeing #vulnerability #forgiveness #transformation #acceptresponsibility #inspiredlife #authentic #soul #soulwork #inspiration #selflove #selfworth #selfimprovement #selfawareness #openyourheart #lifelessons #writerslife #writersofinstagram

 2 days ago
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Some #words really disrupt my #spirit and #try is near the top of the list. I guess it makes sense that in my #favorite #book— the #bible , this is the word count for each of these words. Now if I can just get my #patients #clients #friends #family and everyone else to follow #gods lead with their #language , we are in #business ! ——— #sixtyfivemovement #drpetty65 #thoushalleatyourwayout #stoptrying #do ! #love #serviceovercapitalism #mindset #health #wellness

 2 days ago
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My hair has never looked as good... Know what it is?? Swimming pool water and sun... 💦☀️ It's insane that I could NEVER get this amazing curl with any kind of product or straightener or curler or whatever I'd try myself.. All I had to do was swim and then let my hair dry in the sun without even brushing it 😮 It made me think though... Sometimes it's better to STOP TRYING SO HARD! Sometimes you need to just LET IT GO and let it happen naturally, by itself, in its own time. I'm obviously not just talking about hair.. I'm talking about an array of things... Be it falling pregnant (we've all heard of the couple who try and try and once they stop and adopt, or whatever they decide to do, then they fall pregnant), relationships (sometimes we are the ones making all the effort to keep a relationship going and we end up trying too hard and pushing the person away), parenting (we often think our kids need to be entertained at all times but it also helps for them to be bored and get creative)... you name it. Sometimes we try TOO HARD. STOP. #stoptrying #stoptryingsohard #giveup #ifitsforyou #ifitsforyouitwontpassyou #parentingblogger #parenting #mommyblogger #momblogger #momof3 #momof3incpt

 2 days ago
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Living your life. There will be a point in your life where no matter what you do, what you believe or what your intentions are someone will be hurt or disagree with your choices. - - - At what point in your life do you stop, live and let go of trying to please everyone?!? Good intentions are depicted as bad, words are interpreted wrong, social media status’s/quotes and general discussions are dissected to the absolute negative points and you find yourself explaining your choices and your life to others. - - - Consciously, where do you draw the line?!? Why do you have to explain your life choices and intentions? you yourself know that you a pure and real. Why do people have you second guessing you? Why do people feel the need to create something that wasn’t even there to begin with? - - - Today, now and forever stand by your intentions and your life choices as you make them. You don’t owe anyone anything when it comes to your family, your life and your choices. - - #liveyourlife #stoptryingtopleaseeveryone #peoplepleaser #goodintentions #nomatterwhatyoudo #youdontoweanyoneanexplanation #doyou #betruetoyourself #nonegativevibes #standyourground #mumlife #mumsofinsta #inspiring #stoptrying #socialmedia #parenting #raisingdaughters #strong

 3 days ago
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AB🦾AB🦾AB Don’t sweat it if you don’t get it it isn’t for everybody @thearmbarsoapcompany #trainhardstayclean #freshtodeath #cantfakejiujitsu #getinwhereyoufitin #stoptrying #loveitorleaveit

 3 days ago
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Don't listen to me now you never cared about me so why start I'm so much older than I was then I'm not gonna beg for no one I don't cry over anyone I and I don't wanna start so stop trying to play with my heart. #stoptrying #idc #followforfollowback #followers #likeforlikes #comment4comment #cute #rainbow #gaygirls #bisexualgirls #bisexual #loveme #fakecat #blackhistorymonth #blackgirlmagic #blackandproud

 3 days ago
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This shit ain't all fun and games. - I get serious about performance and can struggle with a lot of anxiety and insecurity. It was crucial having a cool & calm @mr_ddavis there to reassure me that I was bringing my A game. He even let me do 2 more takes out of neuroticism, knowing damn well we got it on the first one. 🙏🏽🙏🏽💪🏽💯 You can hear someone say you can't do something, but whether or not you listen to that is a choice. #stoptrying #startdoing . . . #bts #happy #love #me #toolatetostaythesame #instagood #musicvideo #singer

 3 days ago
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This burning quest(ion) ~ How to find ultimate happiness ~ how to live in Bliss? Like going with the flow, or "finding" love, being happy requires that we just stop trying. . The bliss is with us inherently but due to fast work of our minds or power of senses pulling us away from receptivity of the inside world we are constantly missing it.... Even when we are trying to describe our experiences or moment of bliss whether it happens sitting in meditation or in nature or just pure joy to the contact of someone, suddenly the whole blissfull experience becomes gross. The more detailed the description, the grosser it becomes. Meditation is when you don't try to describe, understand, analyze. Meditation is just sitting with it and allowing the experiences to caress you. Sit, let go of trying, snug in the warmth of the journey into unknown 🙅🏽‍♀️🏊🏼‍♀️ Most of us have been trying to swim tirelessly all our life, until come this time to relax, to just float 💆🏻‍♂️ . Meditation doesn't have to happen in serious ritualistic sitting meditation. It comes to you when you stop trying. Allow yourself to flow carelessly 💙⛵ don't describe nor analyze your intuitive calls. Just be! This is the process to Self-Realisation. . "Always be ready" is the greatest lesson received seated at the lotus feet of our dear Swami Yoganand, it does not come with anticipating all potential situations, it comes with acceptance of anything that come your way... Everything that comes, favorable or unfavorable situations, accept. It is a lesson just for you. A gift. Don't miss out! 🎁💙

 4 days ago
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Try until you succeed, stand everytime until you lead.. You won't ever loose by trying but by giving up to try..! #februaryquotes #life #try #succeed #stand #everytime #fall #loose #trying #donot #giveup #nothing #over #until #stoptrying #motivate #inspire #mindset #thoughts #positivity #vibes #sundayinspiration #hpi

 5 days ago
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True surrender doesn’t mean we lose ourselves. In fact, it’s the opposite. True surrender, when we lie down our arms, open our palms and just stop, that’s when we find ourselves again. We don’t have to give anything up because what we were holding onto wasn’t even ours to begin with. We just have to stop and release the weight of all the nonsense. . . . We have to stop in order to start. We have to pause in order to begin again. We have to surrender in order for the universe to be able to guide us. Stop resisting. Stop trying. Stop moving. Just stop. Surrender. Breathe. Be. When we are quiet, then we can actually listen. When we close our eyes, then we can actually see. . . . #surrender #40weekspregnant #openup #stoptrying #gowiththeflow

 5 days ago
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A visual of what you look like trying to fit where you don’t belong #loveyourselfenoughtobeyou

 5 days ago
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Being in a relationship with a narcissist, psychopath or sociopath is one of the most exhilarating, devastating, heart-pounding, confusing, frightening, and painful experiences that anyone could, I dare say, ever experience. • One moment you are pulled into the most passionate love affair you have ever known, and the next moment, you are cast aside with no explanation, often leaving you in the depths of despair and with damage to your physical health, emotional well-being, bank account or all three. • Both your “emotions” and logical thought processes are thrown into turmoil as you struggle to make sense of what has happened to you. • @face2facehope #face2facehope

 6 days ago
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Ahahaha 😂 🤣 #youcantpolishaturd #stoptrying #lessonlearned #lovethosewhodeserveyourlove #staywild 💖❤️💗💞💕😍😘👌

 6 days ago
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I don't even know what this expression is. 😂😬 . . . . . . . . . . #stupidvalentinesday #datenight #idkwhathappened #stoptrying

 6 days ago
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TEN ACTUAL THINGS THAT LOVE HAS SAID TO ME WHEN I WAS ALONE AND AFRAID (FOR ANYONE WHO MIGHT NEED IT TODAY❤️) 1. What’s that, my baby? You feel like you’re failing at life? But may I ask: By whose rules? And by what deadline? 2. Please stop looking for proof that you are wrong and bad. Don’t be in such a hurry to disown yourself. And please, for the love of God, stop trying to transform. Just sit here with me for a moment, and let me love you exactly as you are. And maybe get yourself a nice big glass of water. That usually helps. 3. You don’t need to show compassion or patience to the world right now. Why would I force that on you, when you don’t actually feel it? You don’t even need to be grateful right now. I love you so much, I will never ask you to do anything you can’t do. Just sit here with me, and know that you are loved, and let that be all we do today. 4. Stop trying. Does that scare you? Do you still have trouble believing how loved you are—even when you are doing nothing, producing nothing, improving nothing, understanding nothing? Can you sit quietly with me for a moment and consider the possibilities? 5. Can you find the courage and curiosity to live one breath at a time? Can you breathe into this very moment, right now? Because “right now” is the only place I will ever be able to find you. So meet me halfway, dear one, by taking the next breath. 6. You are not crazy or broken, sweetheart, but you do have a mind that requires constant, tender, affectionate stewardship. Good thing you have me! 7. I see how you much you fear solitude sometimes, but trust me: This is your medicine right now. Also, I have a secret for you: You’re not alone. It’s actually not even possible. 8. If it helps, sweetheart, you can’t possibly do anything wrong. By which I mean—you can’t possibly do anything that will lose me. 9. I’m right here. I have always been right here. I will always be right here. I’ve got nothing but time for you. 10. Don’t worry about how everyone else is doing it. There is no “everyone else”. There is only you and me. And my name is Love. And so is yours. So let’s just sit quietly now, and know this truth together❤️ @elizabeth_gilbert_writer

 6 days ago
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We can’t get where we want to go by pushing against where we don’t want to be. TRUST ME. I’ve tried it both ways. Repeatedly. I used to REALLY WANT to lose weight. I pushed against where I was and ONLY wanted to be where I was going (read: leaner). When I finally 👏🏽 LOVINGLY 👏🏽ACCEPTED where I was... When I stopped pushing against it... well... voila! I don’t know what I weigh now, and I DGAF what the scale says, but I do know I feel GREAT walking around naked. FOR THE FIRST TIME IN MY 41 YEARS OF LIFE. So there’s that. SAME SAME WITH MAKING MONEY AND FINDING LIFE ALTERING LOVE. When I stopped pushing against what WAS my then-current reality... and LOVINGLY ACCEPTED IT Whilst also TAKING ACTIONS TOWARDS my desires... THEN voila! I now have the body, the biz and the GROWN AS HELL love of my life. All in just about a year. 🤯🙏🏽 and ❤️ All thanks to this simple but not necessarily easy formula: 1. STOP EFFORTING and pushing against what is. 2. Start ALLOWING what is. 3. TAKE ACTIONS towards what you desire. VOILA! It’s FULL RESPONSIBILITY + COMPLETE SURRENDER —> a beautiful / BRUTIFUL life. If you’re curious about this and would like to support yourself in practicing this way of life, be in touch! This is the work I do with my 1:1 Coaching Clients. DM and we can set up a free call to see if we’d be a great fit for Coaching. Cause change is inevitable. But the RESULTS of the change... are OPTIONAL and 100% up to you. I love you. I mean it. Xoxo! ⁠ #austin #atx #austintx #austinlife #VisibilityCoach #LETITBEEASY #beeasy #leap #womanscoach #moneymindset #purposedriven #soulaligned #leadershipcoach #coaching101 #lifecoaching #protips #stoptrying #startallowing #abrahamhicks #getcomfortablebeinguncomfortable #SerenaSaysYES #gamechanger #bizcoaching

 7 days ago
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don’t “attempt”... just do it... #getonwithit #stoptrying #getstarted

 8 days ago
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DAY 44 of #365daysofemi I hear entrepreneurs say “I’m going to try to ...” all the time, usually after I’ve after I’ve asked how they plan on implementing marketing or sales strategies. Trying is very different than doing. Trying is not being committed and without commitment, you have no business.

 8 days ago
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Save it! F̷a̷i̷l̷u̷r̷e̷s̷ are part of life. If you don't fail, you don't L̳E̳A̳R̳N̳. If you don't learn, you'll never change #jcimalaysia #45thAnniversary #UniteAsOne #unsdg #sdggoals #Sustain #Lead #Inspire #Motivate #neverfail #stoptrying

 8 days ago
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🔥 Fire to Flood ☔️ . “Core of my heart, my country! Land of the Rainbow Gold, For flood and fire and famine, She pays us back threefold - Over the thirsty paddocks, Watch, after many days, The filmy veil of greenness That thickens as we gaze” 📚Dorothea Mackellar . We live in a world of uncontrollable and unexplainable extremes. . How can Australia be on fire 🔥 one month and negotiating flood waters ☔️ the next? . Yet, it’s not the first time and it won’t be the last. . The human mind tries to understand and justify the world around it: 🌎 Is it climate change? ♾ Is it karma? ⭕️ Is it the circle of life? 🌿 Nature’s cycles? 🙏 How ‘bout those millions of people on the planet who’ve been praying for rain in Australia? 😳 Did we simply get what we wished for? . 💯 Maybe all of the above? ❌ Maybe none? 🧐 Maybe others? . The thing is, we’ll never know for sure. . We’ll never know The Truth. . So I’m trying a new tactic. . I’m going to stop asking the impossible questions. . Stop trying to understand life in the first place. . While out walking a couple of days ago, I stumbled upon a group of old friends talking about the flooding in their street. As I walked past, the last words I heard were “oh well, we’ll get through it”. . And it made me think a little deeper, a little broader than just the weather. . More about life in general. . 🤔 . We do not need to understand, comprehend or conceptualise our world in order to move through it, in order to come out the other side 💡 . And perhaps that’s all we need to “know” 🤷🏻‍♀️ . #floodingrains #australia #dorotheamackellar #iloveasunburntcountry #truth #uncertainty #extremeweather #wellgetthrough #dontunderstand #stoptrying #worldinourhands #lightbulbmoment #thoughts

 8 days ago
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I’ve been growing more flowers to attract the precious bees 🐝. I give them lots of love and attention. Swipe ⬅️ to see what happened when we were away for a few days in the summer heat. When life doesn’t go exactly as planned, we have a choice to get back up and start over. Be patient and know that growth is a process. Give yourself all the time and care you need to flourish... just like I will for my new baby lavender plant. #lisabensonauthor #stoptrying #startbeing #beginagain #newbeginnings #ebbandflow #stagesoflife #growth #vulnerability #selflove #selfawareness #authentic #vision #soul #soulwork #writerlife #writersofinstagram

 8 days ago
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ereeeerrvv oc meme age haha ew #oc #ocmeme

 9 days ago
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Yep pretty much - - - - - - - - / - - - #memes #dankmemes #toolazytoputallhashtags

 10 days ago
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Are you intentional with your life and your work? Are you fully present to those around you? Do you jump out of bed in the morning excited to start the day? In this Business Before Hours conversation led by Kathleen Riessen, Speaker/Coach/Facilitator, we will examine the one shift you can make today to create exactly what you want through awakening your vision and passion in the world. Join us tomorrow morning for Business Before Hours: Stop Trying & Shift Your Mindset Today! See you at Farrells at 7AM! #stoptrying #mindsetshift #professionaldevelopment #whyiypc #businessbeforehours

 10 days ago
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Him or her! You. Cannot. Change. Another. Person. Only yourself! 💯 #stoptrying #respectyourself #selfrespect #selfesteem #happiness #dontwasteyourtime

 11 days ago
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Me after beating Bobby in her a never ending competition of Irish Car bombs! #irishcarbomb #youwontwinever #stoptrying #sevenyearslater

 12 days ago
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Futility. Grasping at nothingness! #Futility #Grasping #Nothingness #Whybother? #Stoptrying

 12 days ago
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I've stopped trying... Trying to open into back bends more than I should. Trying to do too many chaturangas with a wonky shoulder. Trying to do headstands when I'm not ready. Trying to get the splits. Trying to do things my body doesn't want to do. I've stopped trying to practice things I don't like to do. When I move intuitively the way my body is intended I'm f r e e. Free from pain and inflammation. Free from comparison. Free from over stepping boundaries. Free from doing what I'm not ready to do. I can do anything I choose. On my own time. . . . #yogapractice #lifechoices #alwaysastudent #grateful #movementismedicine #mindset #wakeupcall #stoptrying #startdoing #freedom #intuitive #inspired #lifeshift #soulwork #trusttheprocess #universalenergy #asana #camatkarasana #empoweredyogi

 12 days ago
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This hit me RIGHT IN THE FEELS.⠀ ❤️⠀ I ALWAYS told myself that getting what I wanted was...⠀ Challenging.⠀ Exhausting.⠀ Tough.⠀ And Complicated.⠀ ❤️⠀ But living my life out of alignment was ACTUALLY much more difficult. ⠀ And since I've aligned my habits with my goals, I feel so much more at peace 🙏. ⠀ Who knew that this type of lifestyle shift could actually be the kind of positive I've always been looking for. ❤️⠀ Once I got done with “trying” and started “doing” everything has become more clearer and possible ⠀ ⠀ ⠀ #growthmindset #rightinthefeels

 13 days ago
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Prasarita Padottanasana B otherwise known as intense leg stretch. I used to hate this pose, really hate it. I know we are not meant to be goal orientated in yoga but we are human and I am competitive by nature so of course I wanted my head to rest on the floor. The more I tried the further away that floor seemed to be. One day after a very long run I practiced knowing I would be tight. I had no expectations of my practice that day and what do you know my head reached the floor! It didn’t go anywhere near the floor again for another few years but it did teach me that when we stop trying so hard somethings just open up. #slowlearner #ashtanga #parsaritapadottanasana #yindelayoga #vinyasa #stoptrying #effortandease

 14 days ago
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A whole afternoon trying to build and this is what i have. Pfffff, don't know why i even bother to do so. #amateurcoilbuilder #sucks #vapeworld #vapephotographer #dontbother #stoptrying #loser

 15 days ago
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Boxfight📦🥊 . . . . . . . . . . #disrespect #stoptrying #clapped #fortniteclips #worstplayer

 15 days ago
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Don't get upset because you're the one who keeps asking if I'm ok #depression #anxiety #sayingsandquotes #gettingitoffmychest #stoptrying #nothelping #keepingitunder #hideaway #poem

 15 days ago
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In my latest blog titled ‘Everyone’s Busy - Reflections On How We Rush Our Lives,’ I explore the socially accepted trend to justify how busy we are. See linktree link in bio if you are interested to read. I’d love to hear what you think. #lisabensonauthor #stoptrying #startbeing #vulnerability #selflove #selfawareness #authentic #growth #vision #soul #soulwork #creativewriting #writerslife #writersofinstagram

 15 days ago
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PSA: this is the exact opposite thing that you should do 🤦🏻‍♀️

 16 days ago
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my Duffy is too heavy for youuuu 🤒 #StopTrying #WhatYo1sLookLike

 17 days ago
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This is like messing with your younger sibling #funny #nocap #ongod #memes #patrick #funnymemes #realmemes #hashtag #coming #stoptrying

 18 days ago
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Food for thought this Monday • Every day you can choose to be greater or lesser. The simple decisions you make determine your growth. There is no remaining the same there is only going up or down. You decide! • • • • #bodimize #quotes #cleanimage #details #cofee #monday #mondaymotivation #motivationalquotes #thinkpositive #think #growth #growthmindset #believeinyourself #action #stoptrying #justdoit #nike #normanmailer #existence #moments #less #more

 18 days ago
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It’s not your job to make everybody else happy. For one, you just can’t do. It’s a tiring, spirit depleting task. #foxxie #ankhjourney #everybodyhappy #stoptrying #tequilla #stop #task #stoptryingtomakeeveryonehappy

 18 days ago
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The art of yoga is to breath, feel and become the practice and offer your body what it needs in that moment NOT what your mind Thinks you need. . . 19 years since my first yoga practice and every practice so different. Except one thing That always remains the same is my self-compassion, self-kindness, self-love and breathing obsession. . . My practice serves me and I serve myself. . . So many full into the trap of doing yoga going through the motions then question why they are not feeling or gaining any benefit from this healing practice. . . Learn to be fully in the practice. Experiment with breathing into every space of you and listen to what you need to offer yourself to self-master and flow into your insane potential 💚🙏🏽 . . #yoga #beyoga #stopdoing #breathcentered #healingpractice #wellness #compassion #kindness #flexibility #selfpractice #yogaforlife #lifestyle #yogaretreat2020 #yogaguide #presentoverperfect #stoptrying #be #rosaceafreedom #selfhealers #breakhabits #mindfreedom #heartcentered

 19 days ago
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The art of yoga is to breath, feel and become the practice and offer your body what it needs in that moment NOT what your mind Thinks you need. . . 19 years since my first yoga practice and every practice so different. Except one thing That always remains the same is my self-compassion, self-kindness, self-love and breathing obsession. . . My practice serves me and I serve myself. . . So many full into the trap of doing yoga going through the motions then question why they are not feeling or gaining any benefit from this healing practice. . . Learn to be fully in the practice. Experiment with breathing into every space of you and listen to what you need to offer yourself to self-master and flow into your insane potential 💚🙏🏽 . . #yoga #beyoga #stopdoing #breathcentered #healingpractice #wellness #compassion #kindness #flexibility #selfpractice #yogaforlife #lifestyle #yogaretreat2020 #yogaguide #presentoverperfect #stoptrying #be #rosaceafreedom #selfhealers #breakhabits #mindfreedom #heartcentered

 19 days ago
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T H E R E I S N O H O P E A N Y M O R E . . . . . . #lost #itried #nohope #stoptrying #hashtag

 19 days ago
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✨{instagram} Turning it upside down and flipping my script is so good to get change in perspective! #believeinyourself #icandoanything . . . ⚡️{reality} OK BABE HURRY, did you set up the shot?!?!?!?!?!? the timer is going off!!! GET MY LEGS STRAIGHT PLZ #idontknowwhatimdoing 🤣😂 . . 😘😘pause ya scrolling for a little humor in today’s Spiritual Wisdom of the Day #winginit #urnewguru . . . #whysoserious #love #thisisme #myuniquevoice #laugh #laughalittle #laughing #loveme #loveyou #loveyourself #lovemyself #justbeingme #laughteristhebestmedicine #life #lifeisgood #humor #selfcare #selflove #selflovejourney #stoptrying #beyourself

 20 days ago